Ok..this whole thing with not feeling like my usual self sucks.
I´m tired all the time, can´t eat and i have no strength…and NO..i´m not pregnant.
All this made me give the way i live life a long good think….and i realized that i MUST be on the way to recovery when i read Nancy’s blog ..and then immediately added my own comments:
• Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.
– Oh yes.. i think we all can agree that we run the risk of dealing with overbearing, smug, ego centered and ignornat people in our work as well as love lives. It´s all worth it in the end.
• When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.
– Unless u were drunk when you lost.
• Follow the three res. Respect for self, Respect for others, and Responsibility for all your actions.
– Or just resolve what problems u run into on your way through life as best u can.
• Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
– WHEN?
• Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.
– I didn´t get the nickname Miss Disaster for nothing. I wrote the rule book.
• Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.
– BUY A SPINE and deal with the problem!
• When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.
– Or just ignore it and hope no one finds out.
• Spend some time alone every day.
– Oh yes 😉 We all do…or should anyway.
• Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.
– Unless the new values serves you better than your old ones.
• Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
– WHEN???
• Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.
– Honorable you say. Depends on who u ask what is honorable..and in what period of their life you ask. Might not be the same thing later in life.
• A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.
– This i actually agree with.
• In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.
– A man must have written this one.
• Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.
-I´m SO immortal in that case. Just ask Hank, Stephe or any of the brothers at B.B.E.S
• Be gentle with the earth.
– Wear slippers and never ever clogs.
• Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.
– Like under your desk or behind your sofa.
• Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.
– Tough one if one of you breaks a leg or has a cold.
• Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.
– Now this one sucks. So i´m not successful if i don´t have to give up a bunch of things. BULL!
• Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.
– TRUE!! I cook AND make love like a hurricane. Both equally addictive.
Until later.
Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.And there is always a positive side to both outcomes. You find someone special and achieve things or you take great satisfaction at telling the person why they were such a git as you kick them where the sun don’t shine.• When you lose, don’t lose the lesson.- Who loses anything? Must be a woman – we men just misplace things as we know where they were before someone else moved them and therefore lost them (see first comment – it must have been a woman)• Follow the three res. Respect for self, Respect for others, and Responsibility for all your actions.Or look after number 1. Then others that are important. If at the end no-one says why?? to what you have done you have been responsible enough.• Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.- Take it this was written by the lottery winner who lost his ticket. After they wrote this where did they stab the pen into? Probably missed…..• Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly.Never break the rules –bend them as far as possible. Always more fun to see the frustration when the person is not be able to bollock you because technically you only scuffed the line in the sand. Never never did we step over it though!• Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship.Indeed but always remember it and use it as a bargaining chip when needed. A get out of jail card is always useful!• When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.The man who smiles when things go wrong has thought of someone to blame it on.• Spend some time alone every day.Especially when you have a good bottle of whisky at hand and no one to disturb you• Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values.Eh what logic is that? If you open your arms then whatever was there before will be dropped – hence you have let go of the values. They are now all over the floor in a pile. Just upgrade to a newer set of values on-line and download them. Quicker and easier – why have your arms full!!• Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.No sitting there with your fingers in your ears going “LALALALALALALALALA I’m not listening to you” is a lot better answer. And it has no reply to it!• Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time.Or live a dishonorable life and die with a smile on your face……..your choice.• A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life.- So is a widescreen TV a spare room and a lock on the door.• In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past.“LALALALALALALALALA I’m not listening to you”. See it works as there is now no disagreement.• Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality.What worked for you make not work for others – why run the risk?• Be gentle with the earth.Only if asked. Sometimes gentle may not be what is wanted.• Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.The dentist, the parents in law, a mushy chick flick….if I have never been there before means I never wanted to go in the first place. Therefore avoid such places then you’re not disappointed.• Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.And if need starts to exceed love then it is time to think of putting them in a home.• Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it.Nah. Judge your success by the looks of envy and jealousy on the face of people you know. Quicker and costs you less• Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.Just as long as you remember to put down the hot pans first and keep away from the cooker. Remember third degree burns are painful and leave scars!
I DIE!! U ARE THE KING! LOADS OF LOVE TO U MY DARLING STU!!!
I soooo love you 🙂 I die, you make me laugh so loud HUGS AND KISSES and be the strong person you know you are.
but friends worth having will love you no matter what!…although recipe books are always good x