I takes guts to be honest to yourself.
I have to had a very long and rather tough conversation with someone very close. It was a one of the hardest conversations i have had in a very long while.
To know what one needs, what is need to have..not nice to have in your life.. is hard. Once you have realized
(and maybe not to your great delight) what it is you need, the case is more often than not that it´s going to take a whole lot to change your situation. To realize that you aren´t the person you wish to be and then to make a true effort to a change, that, my friends, is to be truely brave.
No mattter how small or insignificant it might seem to someone else.
The only way to know yourself it to be honest to yourself…
…and once you know yourself you are free.
I pay homage to you Wallstone who is willing to be free.
My definition of freedom is little bit different, not sayin that it’s right or wrong. Freedom for me is when achieving a goal, helping a friend, win the lottery, score etc. We often put ourselves in positions where we want to please someone else, when you are able to release yourselve from the pressure then you are free!!! Release the pressure, get free and be yourself (there is a difference between be and know yourself). YoYo, time to leave the cyberspace and enter the “real world”. Catch you later alligator!
Hey, It IS very hard to realize that you aren´t the person you want to be. But it is equally brave to have the conversation with this “lost” person. It can´t be too joyfull to confront a friend but it really shows true frienship. I´m sure that your friend is thankfull and really appriciate you for the person you are!
*raises hand*Oh oh, Miss Lena, I wanna hear all the details! What’s the big change? And “how perfect” are you aiming for? 😉
I agree with the statement that u have to release yourself of the preassure of simply wanting to please others. U need to know why, and to know why..u need to know urself. Otherwise..u react to others instead of acting consciously.I think we both have the same basic thought:)And Dive… i dont want perfect. I want real.